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Monday, 01 June 2009

Most Giving Person

Cathy Elmer. This name will never be forgotten. I'd have to truly say that of all the people I've come to know in my life time, I've never known anyone anymore selfless, giving, or as kind as Cathleen Emler. The many times that she's shown kindness has always put me at awe. I remember when I first started teaching, we befriended eachother immediately. Since it was just my son and I then, Cathy and her husband were even more loving to us. We became so close that we were practically like family.

It wasn't even within a year that I've taught and one day, Cathy came up to me and said, "Daisy, Rob and I were talking and he and I agreed that since you're such a hard worker, you and your son derserve a three fun filled days with us at Disneyland and California Adventure. Let's go and celebrate Seth's birthday there." She even called in advance and arranged a special birthday celebration with Mickey and Minnie Mouse. They only asked that I bring money to buy souvineirs, if I wanted.

After that, we did many more things together. Seth and I went to their daugther's dance recitals. They attended Seth's soccer games, bday parties, and vice-versa. We went out to eat, just because...and often. We celebrated most holidays together, at their house.

We did so much together that even her immediate family started warming up to us just like we were their family, too.

And then...I met husband. Everything changed. I even started thinking crazy thoughts. The many precious times that we've all shared together, were now thought of as, "since it's just you and Seth, we want to take care of you two," feeling. I even thought that maybe they just felt bad for us all those time. And of course, my husband didn't want to hang out with them...ever. We attempted a few hangouts, but my husband "didn't feel comfortable." Eventually, a few hangouts became no hang outs at all. (I'm not saying that I'd rather go back to the old ways. It was always so sweet of Cathy and Rob, but I was always lonely. I'm much happier now. I wouldn't trade this for then)

So, it wasn't until today that I realized now that I've forgotten about a friend who many times gave unselfishly. I've taken her and her husband for granted.

Today, I got teary when Cathy willingly offered 5 of her sick leave days(the maximum allowed) to a complete stranger. I asked her, "Cathy, are you sure you want to give five days?" and she said, "Sure. Why not? If it's anyone that knows you, then of course." I almost cried.

All week I've been stressing about how many hours I would be able to donate when my aunt asked a few weeks ago. I even worried more about who and which of my co-workers would even give a care to donate their sick leave days to my auntie (who is related to me through my husband). She wants to stay longer at home with her daugther, Tina. Born at 7 months, she's still too small and going through difficulties.

I told Phong last night that I was going to ask Cathy today, and if she were to say "no," then I wouldn't even dare ask anyone else. Yesterday, I was already turned down by a co-worker. Her reason was "I have kids, too. Emergencies can come up at anytime. Besides, those sick leave hours are barely ever enough. Sorry." And so, after having talked to Cathy today, I decided to ask at least one other person. She also said, no. "Those are my retirement days, honey," was her response. I'm not going to ask anyone else now. I couldn't blame them. I wasn't even mad nor disappointed that even though I'm close to them, they wouldn't help out. It was clearly understood. Even I can't donate more than two or three days, and that's really pushing it. Besides, I'm family. But, Cathy? She's truly the most giving person-maybe even more so than Oprah. Oprah has money to throw away, and plus she does it for fame. Cathy just gives because she wants to.

Saturday, 23 May 2009

What do you like best about the place where you live?

What I like about the place that I live at now is that it is a safe place. I don't ever feel uneasy coming home. To me, safety is most important.

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Twitter

I just signed up at Twitter. It's interesting so far. Within a few mintues, I've already received 3 followers. It's crazy that they call it "followers." Anyways, we'll see how it all goes. You only get to write quick thoughts there. I think I still like Xanga more. It's more like a journal here.
Blogging In My Mind

My life's fate has taken a unexpected turn and lately, I've been blogging in my mind all too often. I say, "blogging in my mind," because that's exactly what I'm doing. I want to put it into writing so bad, but I can never get in front of a computer to do so, just when I really want to say something or just scream it out.
There's so much I want to say tonight but it's already past midnight and I can barely keep my eyes open. Therefore, I'll have to wait until another time. Hopefully, tomorrow.

Tuesday, 12 May 2009

First Entry

Let's see how long I keep this Xanga account. I'm soooo behind. It's 9:28 A.M. and I've been on this computer all morning. I only have about an hour left before heading to the dentist.
I have a wisdom tooth that is kiling me. Today will only be the initial visit. I wish I was getting it removed today. I still can't believe that pulling out my wisdom tooth will be considered surgery. Nevertheless, I'd rather go get it out then feel the pain that I've been feeling for the last four days. It's been miserable. I can barely open my mouth or enjoy my food.